Autism Experts

I just returned from a two day workshop in Bloomington to finish my "autism team training" for work. Being a member of the team required 6 days of training in Bloomington, and last spring when my boss asked me to be a part of it, I couldn't say no. So, I got to spend several days in B-town, "learning" more about autism [as if living with it 24-7 isn't enough].

During this training I listened to people who have made a conscious choice to learn more about autism; to spend time with families struggling to make sense of the disease. Honestly, these are some amazing professionals, who got into this long before it was an "epidemic" with motives that are pure and heartwarming. They live and breathe autism, and don't have too. They have come to love, cherish and celebrate the people who are affected by this mysterious [and frustrating] disability. They are my heroes for so many reasons.

First, they choose to live autism. Autism is so many [ugly] things and I can honestly say, I would never choose to expose myself to it. They are fighting the good fight for all of us not given a choice; and they do it with passion. I am humbled by it.

Next, they validate me (probably this should be first). I listened to them speak passionately and they make me feel like I'm doing the right things for my son. My mantra has been "it's all about quality of life". The points they made reiterate that importance. These experts emphasized the importance of social skills and relationships. They urge parents to consider what life will look like for kids 10, 20 years down the road. I am SO there...so there.

Also, these experts say, "there is no magic cure; no simple solution". Amen to that. It may take several therapies, a combination of approaches, a multi-faceted solution. And even then, your kid may still suffer from the demons. Living and "dealing"with autism requires outside the box thinking; it's like running a marathon uphill...

Finally, these experts find a way to appreciate what makes these kids just like any other kid (and what makes them drastically different). They find ways to connect and laugh with kids. They find ways to solve problems and create solutions for families. They give me hope.

And sometimes, hope is all I have left....